The 10 Commandments of Our Commitment
1. We will love with all our hearts, cherish with all our souls, and protect with all our strength each other for as long as we shall choose to do so.
2. We will always respect each other as individual and loving human beings, and attempt with the greatest importance to fulfill and provide for each other.
3. Nothing in our lives will knowingly or intentionally bring harm or dishonour to the other.
4. We will provide support to each other, in times of trial.
5. We will communicate our wants and needs, feelings and concerns, openly and honestly.
6. We will assist and guide each other to our best ability.
7. Our love will provide a forum, a place for thoughts to be expressed without fear of embarrassment or ridicule.
8. Both Master and His Pet will follow any and all rules established within this bond, both acknowledging that it is *choice* that allows this to occur.
9. We will remember at all times the difference between private and public rules of conduct, and to maintain them separate as long as required.
10. We will wear the symbols that represent our bond at all times, unless absolutely necessary to remove them.
Vows, Rules and Contract Materials to be considered when beginning a D/s relationship
slave’s vow
This bracelet belongs to my Master. It is a symbol of His commitment to me and my submission to His will. I will place it on His right arm so that its weight might remind Him always that where He may falter, I will support Him, where He may fear, I will stand strong, where He may weep, I will taste His tears.
This collar belongs to His pet. I will wear it around my neck to remind me always of my submission to Him. Whenever I may feel it I will know that I am bound to Him as surely as He is bound to me. I have chained my soul to His, and given my body into His care, I will submit to His desires for this is my chosen path, my gift to Him.
Master's vow
It is with love that I set this vow.
I honour and cherish, the strength that my pet has shown to me, in asking that I become her guardian, her protector, her lover and her friend. To do less would be to dishonour both myself and her, which I cannot do.
I accept the tokens of our bond, knowing that such can only be put asunder by us, and that no other may cause them to break.
In loving return for her service, devotion and love to me, I will lead her on a path towards knowledge, skill and strength.
In acknowledgement for her belief in which we are, I will remain strong and disciplined, bending rather than breaking, that we may both benefit from the experience.
In the hope and desire of the future, I will plan and dream and work, towards a better and brighter tomorrow for us.
Above all things, I will love kitten with all of my heart, soul, and body, and that her love will be returned in all ways.
pet’s General Rules of Conduct (or things that will not be compromised)
1. I will be honest. Master cannot fully care for me if I do not give Him all of myself to learn and to know.
2. My collar will be worn when Master deems it appropriate or I choose to do so as a sign of my loving and willing submission. If for any reason a collar cannot be worn I will tell Master as this will prevent Him from feeling slighted or misunderstanding.
3. I will not wear underwear during “our time,” generally evenings and weekends at home, I will also remove them at Master’s request.
4. There will be no sexual physical contact with anyone other than Master. By extension, there will be no dating or other wise “romantic” relationships with anyone other than my Master.
5. Mistakes will be made. In some instances they will require punishment, but at all times they will be acknowledged with a genuine apology. Master will always accept my apology and once my penance is made, the mistake will be considered a lesson learned and not brought up again.
6. My body belongs to Master, to do with as He chooses. I understand that this gift is kept with the knowledge that He will always have in His mind the rules for my health and safety.
7. I will never fear to share anything with or ask anything of Master. He is my possessor, as such deserves to know everything I am, require, or desire.
8. I understand that I may ask for a “time out” in which all rules will be suspended and my submission set aside, be it for a few minutes or for a full day.
Rules for Keeping pet Safe During Sexual Interaction
1. There will be *no* cross anal-vaginal play. Different holes require different toys, and infections keep Master from His pleasure.
2. All toys will be cleaned and disinfected after each use. No toys will be re-used in the same session.
3. Master will “clean up” or request His pet do it for Him, after any pause or before change of location.
4. His pet will be given absolute control over any session if she feels she must utilize her Safe-word. Upon the use of her Safe-word, all action will stop and discussion will occur. A ‘cool down’ period, if necessary will be used.
5. His pet knows her own body and her rules for healthy lovemaking, and she will enforce them without fear of retribution knowing that her health is important for Master’s pleasure.
6. Master will ever after ask before anal sex if His pet is comfortable and desires this act. If this act was not agreed upon before arousal, Master will stop all action and make sure His pet is cognizant when He asks. (p.s. this is the only sex act that Master must ask permission for; any other action will gladly be accepted by His pet)
7. If His pet requests lubrication, kitten gets lubrication, in copious amounts. : D
8. Master will try to remember not to play too rough while His pet is on her period as her parts become more sensitive and can be injured easier. For her part, His pet will remember to *ask* for gentle lovemaking when she feels it necessary.
pet’s personal rules-for-herself (that Master will enforce)
1. My Master will always have tea available for Him.
2. I will sit at Master’s feet whenever He asks. Further more I shall sit at His feet whenever I desire as a sign of my affection and trust in Him.
3. I am comfortable in my skin, and will gladly disrobe entirely or in part if Master should request it.
4. Master can always ask anything of me and I will gladly fulfill His needs, if I am uncomfortable with anything He requests I will convey this feeling to Him so He might guide me through His desire, or alter it for my comfort.
Master’s Rules for His pet
1. In private, “Master” is to be used upon any instruction given to His pet. “Daddy” may be used in any sexual connotation that His pet desires. I may ask for such address if I would like to hear it.
2. His pet serves; Master receives. But that does not mean that His pet has no sense of self, or self-worth. Her needs are real, and she should leave this relationship should her needs not be met.
3. His pet’s primary role is to follow Master's directions and to please Master.
4. His pet will expect to be corrected and shown the right way to behave if she falters or actively misbehaves.
5. His pet will greet Master upon entering a room with a smile (and a kiss as appropriate/possible). At a minimum a smile and acknowledgement of love will be given.
6. These rules are intended as a framework. To that end, some may change, grow or disappear as time and we grow. When that occurs, we shall discuss changes and reach a renewed agreement.
7. In deference to the love and dedication His pet has and will continue to show Master; there will be no sexual physical contact with anyone other than His pet. By extension, there will be no dating or other wise “romantic” relationships with anyone other than my pet. Fairness and equality, despite differences in position and station, form the cornerstones from which bridges are built and towers are erected.
8. It is understood that Master may also request a “time out” when required for His own uses.
The Care and Feeding of His pet
1. Master will continually understand and accept that His pet is wounded deeply and may have a hard time expressing herself.
1a. His pet will understand that sometimes the way to growth and security is through the fire. Thus, at times, Master will assist His pet in expressing herself, even if she may ‘not want to’.
2. Master will never raise His voice to His pet. If a situation of anger occurs the D/s guidelines will be set aside until the disagreement is settled.
3. Master will be patient as His pet learns how best to serve Him.
3a. His pet will remember that patience is a virtue, and exists on both sides of a coin. His pet will also remain patient as her Master learns how best to teach, guide and support her.
4. Master will stop what He is doing at any time to focus solely on His pet if she requests His attention, because she is His responsibility and relies upon Him heavily.
5. Master will understand that He does in fact know what is best for His pet in all things, and will push her as He finds necessary. If His pet feels overwhelmed she will use her safe-word and a conversation will occur as to what she feels she is capable of and what Master knows she is.
6. His pet will have her own space to which she may go for time to herself for reflection, privacy, or just some time alone. She will not use this space to hide from Master or avoid responsibility. It is a gift from Master that she will respect and cherish.
7. Furthermore, Master will ask before entering and will respect His pet’s need for her own time. If He feels she is trying to escape from something He will gently bring her out and not violate the sanctity of her room.
