The
Hanky Codes
how
to use them,
what they mean...
For
those of you who don't know about it, the hanky code works as follows.
What you do is have a certain color handkerchief partially hanging out of
your back pocket, tied around your head or to your jacket. The Left/right
code is combined with this so that if it is worn on the left the
person is a dom (or top), worn on the right means sub (or bottom). Having
a hanky hanging out of both of your back pockets means: "looking for
someone, don't matter what role I have to play." The different colors
(and materials) have different specific meanings to indicate the
wearers additional preferences.
The
hanky code is mainly used by the gay community, however, some
heterosexuals do use a few of them, for instance the black or gray colors to indicate whether they're seeking heavy play or soft
play.
|
The
Hanky Codes
|
| Color/Material |
Means |
|
black
leather
gray
charcoal
navy/dark
blue
medium
blue
robin
egg blue
light
blue
teal
blue
kelly
green
khaki/olive
hunter
green
lime
green
lemon
cream
pale
yellow
doily/yellow
beige
gold
mustard
apricot
coral
orange
rust
fuchsia
red
light
pink
dark
pink
burgundy
red
polka dots
mauve
magenta
purple
lavender
brown
brown
lace
brown
satin
grey
flannel
white
red/white
stripes
black/white
stripes
brown/white
stripes
yellow/white
stripes
white
lace
paisley
fur
silver
lame
gold
lame
leopard
tan
Kleenex
handy
wipe
chamois
cocktail
napkin
|
heavy
s&m
leather
fetish
bondage
latex
intimate
sex included
into
"police" games
69
or "French" (oral sex both)
oral
sex by bottom only
genital
torture
into
"hooker" game
into
"military" games
daddy
sex
with food
enema
licking
spitting
water sports (urine games)
rimming
(licking anus)
into
threesomes
big
penis (has or wants one)
wants
overweight partner
foot
worship
anything,
anytime
into
"cowboy" games or pony girl
spanking
anal
fisting
dildo
breast/nipple
torture
razors/knifing/scarification
menstruating
navel
fetish
armpit
fetish
piercing
drag
scat
(feces games)
not
circumcised
circumcised
"square"
(suits, dresses, black tie)
whipping,
flogging
shaving
likes
partner of black race
likes
partner of Latino race
likes
partner of oriental race
likes
partner of white race
into
boxer shorts
animals
included
romantic
like
body builder types
tattoos
smoking
(cigars) a must
into
smelly games
into
oil and grease
motorcycles
bar
type |
| Other
Indications |
| Color/Material |
Means |
| teddy
bear on leather jacket |
likes
cuddling |
| kewpie
doll |
afraid,
uncertain, novice |
| mosquito
net |
outdoor
sex |
| keys |
your
place or mine |
| rope |
into
Japanese bondage |
| electric
plug |
into
electrical play |
| toothbrush |
can't
play at my place |
| sweat
band |
wrestling,
no rules |
| plastic
fork |
dinner
included |
| celery |
brunch
included |
|
metal
cockring leather jacket |
seeking
exciting sex |
You show an electrical plug as indicator to
electro play.
A black & yellow striped hanky is gaining popularity in the gay
community.
(The stripes are on a 45 degree slant, so it looks like the electrical
"CAUTION" signs)
So
there you have the Unabridged Hanky Code. Remember, it's unabridged
because we haven't taken anything out...but that doesn't mean it's
complete! If you know of some other ways that handkerchiefs (or other
specific materials or items) are used as signals please do be sure to send
an email with info about it.
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