We get numerous calls and emails from our guests asking what they should be wearing to our events.
We appreciate the genuine interest so we have made this page in order to help you.
First things first – we always say that when going out for a night on the town that you should treat it as one. Make a real solid effort. Look your best. Looking your best makes you feel your best – when you feel your best - then your night out can be a complete blast.
Not only does a good looking ensemble make you look good but it is a hint to the others around you of what you are about and enhances the experience for everyone and the party as a whole.
We as Americans are commonly criticized by persons from other countries that are visiting us for the lack of interest in the way we look when we go out.
When attending a fetish event in London, you will see everyone dressed to the absolute max - Eye candy in every direction. They think that we here in America have lost our interest in looking our best when going to parties or clubs.
Now here is some food for thought – if you are a single male, female, TG or even a couple and you are on the hunt for a new friends, mate or playmate – wouldn’t you be more drawn to a person or people if they were dressed amazing? In order to meet someone new – make a serious effort.
We are very shocked when we see people wander into an event looking as if they just rolled out of bed five minutes before showing up! Or our favorite – the person that walks in wearing a sweatshirt and jeans with sneakers thinking that they look good?
From our eyes this form of dress is in the worst taste possible. It is far from attractive and to be blunt it’s tacky. The persons that come to these events dressed like this are usually completely isolated and do not make any new friends. All this just because you were too lazy to get dressed up? We can honestly say that laziness is no excuse.
We are the first ones to be questioned by the people who arrive looking like something the cat dragged in about why no one is talking to them or criticizing us for not meeting anyone new. And rather than being blatantly honest and telling them that their dress leaves much to be desired – we gently guide and advise them on how to enhance their night by dressing sexier next time they attend.
Saddest part is that some of you call us asking us what you should wear to an event and after a lengthy conversation - you arrive to the event – you introduce yourselves to us and much to our chagrin – you are one of the perpetrators of this dress disaster.
You made the effort to come out and do something new and exciting – don’t stop there – go the whole nine yards – make this an experience. It’s not like you go out to these events every single day – make it an occasion.
You don’t go to a persons wedding or anniversary party dressed in jeans and a white t-shirt so why go to a fetish swinger party like that? Better yet – why bother going out if you aren’t going to make an effort at all?
We do our part as the Promoter and Staff to put together the perfect measure of ingredients to make all the parties the best possible – so we say – Do your part – show how good looking you can be – express yourself – take advantage of your night out.
Call a friend – take them shopping with you – make an outfit – dress up your date! Make it a real big deal – trust us your efforts show to everyone that sees you. You can even call on our website links area to find the names of stores you can shop at.
With all that said …
Acceptable Dress Suggestions:
Every month we have a theme for our private fetish swinger event Peepshow Party – we describe the theme in the name of the night (for example – Saints and Sinners = angels and devils) So we suggest that you use your imagination and come up with something that will mesh well with the theme.
We also suggest that if you are more into the fetishy things in life that you dress in Fetish, PVC, leather, latex, lingerie, fantasy, cybergoth, costumes, uniforms, sexy dresses, undergarments of any kind
Not Acceptable for going to any fetish or swinger party – (in other words – this kind of dress will not make you stand out in a good way)
Jeans, Sweatshirts, Sneakers, Flannels, Polo shirts, white t shirts, sports jerseys, du-rags, ball caps, khakis
Every now and again we are forced to remind everyone that there is a dress code to all our events. When we see that the scales are tipping – its time for a wake up call.
We seriously hope that this will help all the fashion victims out there see the light – and encourage all of you who do dress up (you know who you are) to continue setting the example and enhancing the night for everyone who attends these kind of events.
